Category Archives: Tips

How does one not “overstay the welcome” on a first date?

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A gentleman is having really great, long first dates that go very well, but isn't getting call-backs for Round Two. Dominic and Cerise offer some possible insights.

Why does being friends with benefits never work out?

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Ah, friends-with-benefits relationships. What is the ultimate fate of such an arrangement, and why? Dominic offers a possible explanation.

What are the advantages and disadvantages of polyamory for men?

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Dominic delivers a very subjective and personal response to a question about the advantages and disadvantages of being a man in the polyamory lifestyle.

How do you get with girls?

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Some young soul asks the time-honored question, "How do I get with girls?" Dominic steps into the ring for a quick wake-up match.

Fed Up With Porn

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Men gets woman pregnant. Man and woman lose track of sex life. Man turns to porn. Woman feels unwanted. It's a classic tale, and always difficult. Ava and Primus rip the band-aid off.

What are some good ways to meet older women?

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A 20-something man has a thing for the mature ladies out there. How can he meet some matches? Dominic offers some tips to get started.

Buying Porn With Your Lady In Mind

Cerise gives a primer on how to team up with your lady to research and shop for porn that will please the both of you.

10 Commandments of Adult Store Etiquette

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Krispin Milch, a Seattle-area Adult Retail industry professional, offers useful advice on Adult Store etiquette. While advice on how not to be "that guy" at the Adult Store, these are some universally fundamental pointers.

Codependency or “Where the hell did my girlfriend go?”

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Cerise explains how to avoid a bad case of the Crazy Girlfriend, through better communication and good ole' fashioned root-cause analysis. A truly valuable view of how some women approach the nasty but necessary business of relationship conflict resolution.

Cooking For The Sexy Gentleman

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Thaddeus talks Tips For The Gentleman about the impact of easy cooking made all your own. The quickest way to the heart IS through the stomach!