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Why does being friends with benefits never work out?

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Ah, friends-with-benefits relationships. What is the ultimate fate of such an arrangement, and why? Dominic offers a possible explanation.

Chatting with Sexy People: Ava Maven

SIFMT's Ava Maven, from TheAttractiveArts.com

Learn more about our Staff Writers! SIFMT's Own Ava Maven is a dating coach, among many other things. Thaddeus sits down with her for an interview.

How do you get with girls?

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Some young soul asks the time-honored question, "How do I get with girls?" Dominic steps into the ring for a quick wake-up match.

10 Commandments of Adult Store Etiquette

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Krispin Milch, a Seattle-area Adult Retail industry professional, offers useful advice on Adult Store etiquette. While advice on how not to be "that guy" at the Adult Store, these are some universally fundamental pointers.

Codependency or “Where the hell did my girlfriend go?”

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Cerise explains how to avoid a bad case of the Crazy Girlfriend, through better communication and good ole' fashioned root-cause analysis. A truly valuable view of how some women approach the nasty but necessary business of relationship conflict resolution.

Cooking For The Sexy Gentleman

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Thaddeus talks Tips For The Gentleman about the impact of easy cooking made all your own. The quickest way to the heart IS through the stomach!

Panty Worshipper

A man has discovered a fetish for his wife's panties. Right now it's his dirty little secret. But he feels bad about keeping it from her. Oh, what to do? Ava and Primus respond to Panty

Chatting With Sexy People: Academic Tart

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Thaddeus spearheads a new column here at Sex Is For Men Too called "Chatting With Sexy People", in which we reach out to workers in the sex and adult industries for their thoughts and experiences. Thaddeus's first interview is

Class Up Your Kitchen

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In a new installment of Tips For The Gentlemen, Thaddeus explains the virtues of a dapper kitchen setup.

Flirt At Work

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Ava and Primus talk about dealing with an expert office flirt.